A simplified marriage-market game where ranked men and women choose partners under biological, economic, and status incentives.
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dating game
A simplified marriage-market game where ranked men and women choose partners under biological, economic, and status incentives.
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In the dating game example, attractiveness is ranked by genes, wealth, and status.
Nash equilibrium is described as the state where all players maximize their outcome, but Jiang stresses that real dating behavior does not follow it.
Modern dating is a status game rather than a sex or procreation game: people seek partners who display or increase their social rank.
Growing, competitive societies solve reproductive pressure through arranged marriage, while wealthy overpopulated societies produce a dating game where marrying up becomes the path to status.
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"Let's imagine there are five boys and five girls. And they want to get married, okay? So these are the players. And what we're..."
"What's the minimum? Okay? And then I had the boys and the girls write down a response. The boys were pretty simple, right? Well,..."
"You have a high status job. You come from a really powerful family, okay? So these are the three criteria that we can use..."
"So the only way out of this is if they cooperate, okay? And the best way to cooperate is basically five is like, you..."
"There's a problem with this though. The problem is, in real life, no one does this. Okay? In real life, no one actually follows..."
"Look at these billionaires, right? Like Elon Musk. How many wives does he have? How many children does he have? Right? All the women..."
"We know what the players are. The players are doing stupid things. The rules, we know, okay? But incentives is something that we have..."
"...is the one we live in. And here you have a dating game. Right? Because why? Because the odds of you obtaining status is..."
"...status is by marrying up. And that's why you have a dating game. A dating game is an opportunity for you to find someone..."
"...why, remember in our very first class, we talked about the dating game. Right?"
"...last class in our first class we discussed example of the dating game of why men and women are motivated to behave the way..."
"...west has done is not only um has it created a dating game where women can choose to have kids but the western world..."
Relevant Lectures And Readings
Game theory begins with a small dating game and ends with a civilizational forecast: when status becomes the prize, love, fertility, policy, and geopolitics all bend around the same zero-sum structure.
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