A system that withholds attention unless the child performs, creating achievement trauma.
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conditional parenting
A system that withholds attention unless the child performs, creating achievement trauma.
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"...train for high school, your parents have to have a different parenting system, okay? So I'll give you two examples of parenting, okay? The..."
"But the person will probably end up as a teacher, okay? Now you can also say to your child, I don't have time for..."
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