Meritocratic parenting neglects children while making love conditional on performance, producing trauma that can drive endless achievement.
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Meritocratic parenting neglects children while making love conditional on performance, producing trauma that can drive endless achievement.
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"Okay? They're always looking to achieve. And that's what Yale wants. That's what Harvard wants, because these are the people who will be most..."
"But the person will probably end up as a teacher, okay? Now you can also say to your child, I don't have time for..."
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The lecture turns meritocracy from a school virtue into a trauma machine: Harvard invents selection as power preservation, Yale trains insecurity as ambition, and the winners become actors who can promise goodness while serving...
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